Tuesday, February 10, 2015

How to overcome Impulsiveness

To start this article, I need to know or research the meaning of being Impulsive,  Impulsiveness or  Impulsivity, etc.

Well, according to American Dictionary of the English Language, Webster; it is an emotion that  is "a moving of the mind or soul; hence, any agitation of mind or excitement of sensibility". Another definition is an emotion in which it is "a conscious mental reaction (as anger or fear) subjectively experienced as strong feeling…typically accompanied by physiological and behavioral changes in the body" . And according to urban dictionary - Prone to acting without thought; spontaneous.

So in other words, It is our feelings that rise up, move out and we want to follow them and do whatever they say. And That is my problem now of being impulsive . Anyway,  According to an article online, Here are some tips on how to overcome that impulsiveness
  • Walk away from something you want to buy on impulse. It will still be waiting for you later, after you’ve had time to think over the purchase.
  • Take a deep breath or talk with a thoughtful friend before impulsively yelling at someone out of anger.
  • Practice calming strategies, such as muscle relaxation, yoga and cardiovascular exercise such as jogging.
  • Write a list of pros and cons of a tough decision before acting.
  • Make a mental outline of what you want to say before saying it.
  • Do some research on a purchase, decision or a proposal before you act on it.
  • Be mindful.
  • Engage in calming activities.
  • You can stop impulsivity from controlling your actions and your life.

But in a more deeper sense, I believe that surrendering yourself to God and Be aware of your actions that you will never ever hurt some ones feelings or emotions is another essential thing to do or in short Self-Control. Thus I quote Joyce Meyer article " God always has your best interest at heart. That's why He wants to change you more than He does your circumstances. Then, when those inevitable emotions rise up, you can make choices on purpose, not impulsively. Choose to go deeper with Him so you can live beyond your emotions and enjoy the freedom it brings in your life - Amen"!

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